Moon Lee - No End to Shame

As long as Moon wants to fuel her notoriety via her Chinese sina.com blog, we will continue the comic relief of keeping her incestuous sex scandal alive.  The only reason she acts and writes like an amateur tourist guide is because she needs to maintain some sick celebrity status for some obscure reason.  After all, what reasonable readers would care about her amateurish cooking, incidental travels, and attendances at the theater. 

My family and I enjoy laughing at her pitiful escapades.  Moon flaunts her whereabouts but never exposes anything more meaningful about her life and lifestyle.  Does she just want to teach her fans about subjects close and dear to her heart?  But what does one teach without any recognizable expertise?  Who cares about casual musings from a washed-out Hong Kong actress of the eighties? 

She has been successful in keeping alive all the recurring blog essays about her scandalous incestuous affair with a useless teenage boy.  She is forever famous for the destructive and perverse sexual scandal that is now her legacy and trademark.  And the more she continues to maintain awareness of her personage, the more the juicy sexual misconduct stays in the forefront.  Let this be a challenge: she stops writing her silly blog essays, and I will stop making commentary.

I, for one, do not mind one way or another.  Her gross sexual misconduct was hers to own completely.  Moon Lee’s actions were totally her fault and she compounded her disgrace by trying to rob my family’s trust funds (unsuccessfully).  The latter was her greater sin.  I cannot change the history of her making.  And if I am relegated to have my name and my father’s name dragged down in her mud pool forever anyway, so be it.  I will gladly oblige by making commentary on her as long as she enjoys this idiotic limelight.  Having gotten rid of her, my life is now so much better than ever before.  It is amazing how transformational banishing the devil in your life can be!

If Moon loves notoriety, let’s give it to her.  Even a vain devil does not deserve to look like this:  

Moon Lee - an “Angel” becomes a sad “Old Maid”

As long as Moon chooses to advertise her persona repeatedly on her Chinese blog, I will oblige her by keeping news about her alive.

Only Moon herself would know why she keeps her Chinese blog essays going “ad infinitum” in order to advertise her whereabouts and activities.  Who would really care about all her side trips?  How does her feelings about all these incidental places affect anyone one else meaningfully?  She feels so guilty about her own persona that she intentionally avoids revealing what her real life is all about now.  Moon is not a tourist guide; nor is she a professional or useful travel consultant.  So what does her travel log matter to anyone. 

She wants to keep alive an awareness of her being.  That all but assures that her scandalous affair stays alive.  Congratulations on a scandalous job well done.  She is guaranteeing her own lousy legacy.  See below for a comparison of the past and present.  Even I, her victim, feel sorry for her.

All I can see is that a once attractive lady with an enviable vision and family life has become a lonely old maid.  Pictures do not lie!  

Moon Lee – from pretty starlet to loveless matron

At Moon Lee’s prime and during the three good years of our relationship and marriage, she was always well groomed and conscious of her appearance.  Even the housekeeper would comment on Moon’s habit of seldom leaving her bedroom without being totally coiffured.  She knew many admired her looks, but most of all, she probably admired herself.  Moon also loved to pose and look good in photographs.  That is why I had, and still have, a giant library of them.  Since her divorce, her evolving tendency to allow photos into her own blog showing varying levels of being disheveled and unfashionable is quite surprising.  It makes me rather curious about her present frame of mind.  Is she trying to portray that she is practical and down-to-earth and freed from the vanity of the past?  From the pretty girl I used to know and once loved, she is downright and consistently matronly.  It is just more than aging.  She is not ugly but any glamor, freshness or sensuality is lost and she looks like everyone’s semi-attractive housekeeper or nanny.  It has been an amazing transformation.  There is nothing more to admire, physically and professionally.

With her son now in college (my guess in Canada) and away from her side, Moon is relegated to her travels as she amateurishly delve into her hobby of performance and theatrical art.  Over the last several years, she religiously writes for her China sina.com blog.  Yet she has never hinted at any worthy personal relationships of any kind, male or female.  Maybe she has been hesitant to drag girlfriends into her sewer of scandals, and of course, I always doubted that she would ever attract a worthwhile beau.  What man with any financial means will gamble on her?  It is remarkable how a handful sexual rendezvous with an unworthy object of one’s affection can turn one’s life totally upside down.

Of course, Moon’s transgression went way beyond her illicit sex with a minor.  It was one thing to betray her husband’s love, it was quite another to try to rob him as well.  Despite her idiotic sexual mistake, she would have escaped the scandal a lot better if she had accepted my generous offer to leave the marriage quietly.  Yet, she was determined to fight unethically for part of my family’s wealth before she took her leave.  So she ended up losing on all counts, and after a long fight, cried pathetically in the courtroom after the verdict was pronounced without hesitation by the judge.  The long judicial battle kept stirring up her pot of mud, and she was still left empty-handed.

So maybe life’s turmoil at this high level leaves an unyielding scar.  Maybe a scandal in life so spectacular can never be forgotten.  And maybe a sexual desire once so perverse will never allow one to love again or be loved.

Whatever the reason, a once pretty angel of love now looks like a middle-aged matron that only her son can love.  So good luck, because that is all she has left.       

Note: From the following photos, only an idiot cannot tell what is before and after!ccc    

Moon Lee’s sex scandal still holds the world record

The present record shattering news coverage of the sex scandal involving the wife of famous Chinese actor, Wang Baoqiang, seemed at first to have the potential of beating Moon Lee’s “Closet Affair” ten year’s ago.  Upon closer scrutiny, Wang’s wife, Ma Rong, does not have a chance --- she is a distant second place, if that at all.  For certain, the Ma Rong extra-marital affair receives more impactful Chinese coverage because it is actually happening contemporaneously in China.  People are getting the current blow by blows and the salacious details of the sexual encounters themselves.

Similarities between Moon Lee and Ma Rong lie in their evil intentions and actions to rob the husbands they have singularly harmed and betrayed.  Both had schemed in advance to get rich in the event of a divorce.  Both used lies to try to blame the innocent husbands.  And for their future, both will suffer the same consequences --- that their hopes of having a happy family life again after their divorce are forever vanquished.  No man of any substance, ability and wealth will ever marry such a tarnished woman again.  For men of character and financial means, there are far too many worthy choices.

Whereas Ma Rong had a lengthy affair with the talent agent of her husband, the objection of her silly affection is still with a “man” with a job and reasonable income.  Although there is no information to suggest any worthy talents or capabilities of Ma Rong other than her physical attractiveness, the lusting boyfriend at least had a meager income and mediocre occupation.  Aside from looks, the wandering wife was mixed up with a man who is more accomplished than she is.

Moon Lee’s extra-marital affair wipes out all competition, and may hold this world record for the longest time.  This was a thirty-nine year old woman, a celebrity retired actress, falling in love with a boy just before his eighteenth birthday.  This boy was a government-employed dancer with a total income of 900 RMB per month, lived in a dormitory, and with only a high school dance education.  In addition, this boy was at the time of the affair working part-time for the production company owned by Moon’s husband.  More stupendously, after the start of the affair, Moon allowed her husband and her to officially adopt this errant boy as their “adoptive son in China”.  So this affair, in addition to being as close to as illegal as you can be (sex with a minor), also involved an employee (sexual assault in the workplace) and an incestuous component as well.

That is why Moon Lee will own this world record for a long time and probably well beyond her lifetime!  It is a record of stupidity.  It is a record of perverse sexual desire or aberrant love.  Normal minds should be at a lost for words to describe such actions.

Moon Lee – the Goddess of Incest

Countless years after leaving the silver screen and still weathering her history-making incestuous affair with an under-aged employee AND an adoptive son, Moon Lee’s mindless blog fans still refer to her as “god” or “goddess” in Chinese.  That is a distinctive and aberrant curiosity among Chinese fans --- a sign that they are more lunatics than fans.

There is nothing god or goddess-like with Moon Lee who had the opportunity to make a few dozen badly conceived and executed Hong Kong martial arts films in the eighties and nineties.  Her unforgettable scandal of perverse love hardly contribute to any kind of a godly image --- she is such a less than ordinary human being except for her good looks.  Let us remind ourselves that good looks are common among Chinese starlets then and now; it is not an earth-shattering asset worthy of worship of any degree.

When this sordid affair started, Moon Lee was forty-one years old and low-class lover-boy was not yet eighteen --- a minor by law and also an employee.  During the affair of over two years (until discovered), the kid always called Moon “adoptive Mom” in public settings.  No one knows how he addressed her during intimate times.  Even so long after the fact, this is absolutely “gross”!  It can cause one to puke.        

If anything, Moon Lee is best suited to be anointed the Goddess of Incest.  Even I can admit her looks qualify her; and her spectacular incestuous affair with an under-aged kid employee makes her even more worthy of the title.  The manner in which she broke a number of society’s rules was staggering.  She is only a celebrity in the minds of the mindless in China; if she were truly famous, her scandal would have gotten “frontpage” among CNN and the world media.  

So Chinese fans are truly getting “dumb and dumber”!  

Moon Lee – the matter of her sexual appetite

The Chinese language blogs persistent claims that my “old” declarations during the stormy divorce about Moon Lee’s insatiable sexual desire as the cause of her nonsensical affair have contributed to ruining her image.  (Just for the interest of non-Chinese readers: in Chinese culture, it is curious that an appetite for sex is considered a highly undesirable trait for an ethical woman.  That is plain old tragedy, isn’t it!)   However, the first sentence is emphatically wrong on many counts.

I am writing these comments only for the English language blog because I do not care what Chinese readers think.  Most of them are mindless gossip addicts anyway.  The truth is that the Chinese media during the divorce grossly and intentionally misquoted me for a dramatic and “juicy” effect in print.  I specifically declined to answer their questions about Moon’s sexual appetite – only on one occasion did I take the humorous route and asked the reporter to make her own “estimate” about Moon’s appetite and prowess in the sexual arena.  The rest is now history --- countless essays have been written about me attributing her sexual scandal to her insatiable sexual desire.

Even if she did have an enhanced sexual desire per se, that does not make her a bad woman.  The fact is that irrespective of the heights of her sexual appetite, normal or abnormal, it is how she chose to use it on an idiotic man-child that is worthy of debate.

Let the truth be declared now by Moon’s ex-husband:  Moon Lee’s sex drive had nothing to do with her perverse sexual affair.  I know it as a fact deep down by knowing her well for years, both intimately and otherwise.  More importantly for all readers, it is important to know that Moon Lee repeatedly declared to me her affection and admiration for this unworthy specimen of a young man.  Moon openly admitted to me that it was not a sexual matter; it was matter of love that she could not control.  Yet she claimed that even if it was for love, it was love that she could not fully understand and rationalize.  It was scandalous behavior that progressively and incessantly sent her life to hell without any control.

Moon Lee could not have stopped her scandalous journey even though she was aware of the cost.  And for me, the marital relationship seemed so perfect, sexually, romantically and otherwise that it was not possible for me to feel that the relationship had gone terribly astray.  Moon Lee had become the ultimate actress and demon all combined as one.  It still makes me shudder when I think about those weird years of my life.

Dennis Law MD

Moon Lee’s Lover-Boy – a disaster of historic proportions

Our family was just at a great Mexican vacation in Cancun.  Without any prompting, the conversation and laughter drifted towards Moon Lee’s atrocious sexual misconduct that led to the downfall of the “angel”.   And even with our new Marketing and PR Director, Jessica Wang, handling matters, some comments are best coming from people directly impacted by this shameful sexual desire gone astray in history-making proportions.

Moon Lee is a natural topic of conversation not because of persistent anger or animosity.  It is purely because her transgression is sexually so perverse and unbelievable that it demands frequent attempts to revisit the past in the hope of finding answers.  Moon was nearly forty years old when she started this sexual relationship with an under eighteen teenage dancer devoid of looks, education and economic circumstance.  And it was this unbelievable secret that she lived with for two and half years that helped to disrupt a dance and culture company she was involved with as a leader and that was also solely responsible for the downfall of a fairy-tale marriage and family life.

Attached in this essay are photos, printed in certain newspapers in Hong Kong in and around 2008, that appear frequently in Chinese language blogs describing Moon Lee’s misadventure.  Anyone with a sound mind can see the mismatch between a celebrity wife and mother versus some punk kid of little redeeming social value.  Yet, facts were indeed facts, and nothing could have altered the course of history.

My elderly and accomplished mother keeps thanking the infamous “Closet Affair” lover-boy for his deeds in bringing about the downfall of this marriage.  Everyone shudders to consider the consequence of a woman of this nature being permanently embedded in the Law family.  In the final analysis, especially with Moon’s unending lies and fraudulent behavior to steal money and assets from my family, it is clear that this woman was a devil disguised as a “pretty angel” all along.

For many years, she was truly loved and appreciated.  It was only her concrete choices that threw everything away.  There is not even room for regrets on both sides.  And in life, that is really a shame!

Dennis Law MD

PS.  The all-time truth:  a picture is better than a thousand words

 

Moon Lee --- the laughing stock of Chinese womankind

During Moon Lee’s divorce (a subject still kept in the limelight by Moon’s constant efforts to publicize her personage), she made two women her ardent enemies by her false accusations.  Both women hated Moon for her cunning lies and her stupidity.  Both women, as employed artists in Law Brothers Chinese Performing Arts International, had worked with her and under her since de facto she was the director’s wife.  Both women have now totally converted their hatred into sneering amusement.  Their current attitude represents most thinking individuals in China today, especially reasonable women.

The first of these women is Wang Xiaoli, now director Dr. Law’s beloved wife, Alyssa Law.  While a dancer with the company, she and her fellow dancers and friends personally ran into a scenario where middle-aged Moon was stealing passion with her teenage lover-boy in the front seat of her car parked in the garage of a hotel, a full year before Dr. Law discovered the affair himself.  But in the early process of the separation and divorce process, Alyssa came back to work for the company in a new position.  Moon then took the opportunity to accuse Alyssa of being the “third person” and stealing her husband.  Alyssa actually sued Moon for defamation in a Court in Beijing and won!  Now Alyssa, a victim too of Moon Lee’s action and lies, is the beneficiary of everything and more of what Moon had lost.  Alyssa Law is having the last laugh!

The second victimized woman is heralded dancer and model Tang Jiali.   Ms. Tang was signed as the principal dancer of the touring show, Senses.  She was then famous for being an accomplished dancer with a well-publicized portfolio of artistic but nude photography.  Ms. Tang made no apologies for her body of figurative art and dance art, and for that, she stood alone in Chinese history.  Yet she was nevertheless surprisingly conservative in many ways despite her biographical history.  At the time of director Law’s actual discovery of Moon’s long betrayal, Ms. Tang had told him of what she had found out among the spying eyes of all company personnel regarding Moon’s affair.  And for that revelation of the truth, Moon accused Ms. Tang in the Chinese media of an affair with Dr. Law as a cause of her divorce.  Tang Jiali had a recent meeting in Beijing with us over a new venture; she is happily married and has a four-year old daughter.  Ms. Tang was having the last laugh too.  Everyone agreed that no decent worthy man would ever marry Moon Lee – she deserves to sulk as a single old woman for the rest of her life. 

Life is strange and no one can ever know.  Maybe Moon can find true love with a poor man desperate for love too.  But well-to-do capable men are out of her reach --- they have too many more attractive and less risky choices.

Jessica Wang,

Director of Marketing and P.R.

Sight, Sound & Action,

Beijing, China