While Dr. Law has been in China working on his new musical extravaganza to launch an important arts and technology institute in America early next year, the United States is facing a firestorm of sexual abuse accusations against men for inappropriate sexual assault against women, some even decades old. This tirade of anger against men is somewhat disingenuous to say the least. Other than for sexual aggression that involves violence, or threats of violence, most people I know would agree that the best response would have been to kick the offending ass “in the nuts” at the moment rather than to wait for a future opportunity (maybe) to make accusations to the national media. Whose is to blame if the “victim” of seduction decided that career, job security, immediate financial reward or advantages outweigh the urge to castrate the offender by blunt force at the time?
All these belated accusations and regrets overshadow the real fact that women are truly equal to men in many ways and it is not necessary to view them as the weaker sex. One gender threatening, over-powering or taking advantage of the other is absolutely a two-way street. Of the innumerable complaints launched so openly by so many “oppressed” women, and occasional reports of sexual violations in the homosexual world, we do not recall any newsworthy accusations of inappropriate sexual advances of celebrity women against men, under-aged or otherwise. We all know it occurs --- with all this women celebrity power and financial/corporate clout, it is inconceivable that women of higher status have not been aggressive with men of lesser means.
Dr. Law’s ex-wife, Chinese action-actress Moon Lee, is an obvious glaring example. Less than three years into her marriage, this thirty-nine year old retired celebrity Hong Kong actress entered into a sexual relationship with an employee male dancer that was under-aged. Moon would argue it was consensual, but this inequality in social and financial standing between the two makes the issue moot. Making matters worse and even more nauseating was Moon and her ex-husband adopted the silly boy as a Chinese-style “adoptive son” (akin to a godson in the West) half way through the sordid affair. This perverted relationship lasted two and a half years before it was finally discovered and, according to Dr. Law, led to one of most contentious divorces in Colorado history. Colorado’s “no-fault” divorce law by its nature is an advantage for the party that is at fault. Nevertheless, Moon was awarded very little money by the Court at the end of a four-year long legal battle.
Actually, Dr. Law sees all this now with a great sense of humor. He knows from experience that the offender can be either man or woman. Unless violence is involved, the offender is also not necessarily predatory. The desire to seduce someone less powerful may just a natural human sexual instinct --- sometimes, it can be productive but often it can be downright stupid. Regardless of gender, Moon Lee’s choice was destructive and beyond stupid. In her case, and often in others as well, the victim may be complicit too. Unless there is a violent assault, the potential victim could always say “hell, NO”; there is no need to yield while offering all sorts of excuses including job security. So protect yourself at the beginning and do not depend on the law or the media to expose the offense years later.
Publicist,
Dennis Law Companies
